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January 22, 2016, 8:13 AM

A Beautiful Imperfection

For the next three weeks I'll be preaching on the family. This week is parenting, next week is marriage, and then the next week is divorce. I could have titled this series, a Beautiful Imperfection, because none of our families are perfect. I mean, mine isn't, not sure about yours. It was funny I was talking to a friend of mine who recently has stayed with his parents for a while. He said he really didn't rememember a lot of details about his childhood. He didn't remember his parents fighting much, but now as an adult he notices that his parents argue quite a bit. Their marriage isn't quite the perfect setup that he remembers. 

As I preach about family I think about the imperfections in my life. I want to be a great dad, sometimes I'm proud of myself and sometimes not so much. I was visiting with one friend about parenting this week and he said that it seems right after you have a breakthrough you have another setback. Both children and parents make mistakes. 

As I think about marriage I think that sometimes I'm a great husband and sometimes I fall short. We can have a long period of time where I think, "Man this is easy, and so simple. Why would anyone ever have a troubled marriage?" Then there are times when we just can't seem to get it together. It's just an imperfect life. 

There's a country song from 2014 called, Awful Beautiful Life, by Darryl Worley. He sings in the song about his imperfect life but how it has it's beauty. I remember my father in law telling me how much he hated tuna casserole. This was a man that would eat ANYTHING. But he hated tuna casserole. We would laugh about how Lori's mom made tuna casserole about every night when they were first married, because it was about all she knew how to make. You have just have embrace the imperfection and laugh about it. 

Your marriage isn't perfect and you aren't a perfect parent. Many of you have been through divorces and family may have brought you much pain. But in all of the imperfection there is beauty. We choose to love each other and support each other despite our flaws, our warts, and our shortcomings. 

Embrace the imperfection and find the beauty. 


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