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January 7, 2016, 10:25 AM

When I Don't Like The Answer...What Then?

Being a kid is overall a pretty good gig. For the most part, someone else cooks, pays the light bill, puts gas in the vehicles, puts food on the table and does the laundry. As I look back on my childhood one of the not so great things about it was that someone else had to give me the answer. Can I go ride my bike? Can I spend the night at my friend's house? Can I watch this movie? As an adult you get the freedom to choose these things without asking anyone. Well, that is until you are married, then you have to consult someone all over again. But for the sake of time and avoiding controversy I won't get into that. 

I do enjoy the freedom I have as an adult to choose what I want to do without having to get permission. There are certainly some drawbacks to adulthood, responsiblity being one, but the freedom is nice.

But what about as an adult when we go to God with our questions and requests and we don't get what we want? I'll be honest with you, I struggle with this sometimes. I read verses like Matthew 7:7 when Jesus says, "Ask and it will given to you...". I read passages like Mark 11:23 which tells me that if I tell a mountain to move into the ocean that it will be done if I have enough faith. I read a verse like John 14:14 when Jesus says if I ask anything in his name he will do it for me. I read the story of Hezekiah when Hezekiah was given a death sentence by God because of a boil that he had. Hezekiah asked for 15 more years of health and God granted his request. 

But what about me? What about people that I see that ask God for really good things, things that make a lot of sense to me, but they don't get their answer. As a pastor, I'm faced with these situations. I'm asked these questions. I see people pray for their sick child and the child doesn't get better. I see people ask God to heal them and he doesn't. I see people plead with God for something to change, something that I feel needs to change, and it doesn't. How am I to deal with these situations when I read in the Bible that it seems that God will respond to me. You are facing these situations in your life too, just like me. 

God does respond to me, but it's not always what I want. Many times it's not what I ask for. So how do I deal with this? I don't like the answer...so what now?

It's wrapped up in a five-letter word called, faith. 

According to Hebrews 11:1 faith is... "confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." 

Another way to look at is that I will trust God and have confidence in him when I do not see what He's doing. 

Isaiah 55:8 says this, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are my ways your ways", declares the Lord. 

In other words, God doesn't think like us, and he does not behave like us. There are some things that we cannot understand about God, and we never will until we know him fully in heaven. 

The Apostle Paul speaks of "knowing in part" in 1 Corinthians 13:9. Later on in the chapter in verse 12 he speaks of seeing in a mirror dimly. The mirrors they used in the time of Paul's life were not like the mirrors we have today. They were usually some kind of polished bronze and were blurry and dim at best. Paul is saying that until we meet God we just know a little bit, and we understand a little bit. We don't see the full picture. 

So until we see God, until our faith and hope is fully realized, we rely on faith. We CHOOSE to trust God when we don't have all the answers and the answers don't satisfy us. We CHOOSE to trust God when we think we have a way better solution or answer than what He's giving us. 

Just like a child struggles to answer the wisdom of a parent, we too struggle to understand the wisdom of God. But just as a child grows up and begins to understand their parents, we too one day will understand God. 

Until then we have something called, faith! 


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