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September 13, 2016, 4:03 PM

Truth and Love

This summer I had the privlege of teaching a class to  a few hundred 9-10 grade students at a Christian camp. It was a lot of fun. We talked about social media, and how little I know about. We talked about fads. We made fun of each other and just had a really good time. But we also got down to business. One of the classes I taught was about Stephen in Acts 6-7. Stephen stood up for what was right even though it cost him his life. He told the truth even when the crowd literally gnashed their teeth and became furious with him. It got so bad they dragged him out of the city and stoned him. 

Our youth are under assault. They are told if they tell their friends the truth that they are full of hate and phobias. The specific issue I dealt with was the LGBT and homosexual issue. I told the students that they did not have to choose between TRUTH  and LOVE. Actually, the two go hand in hand. I told them they could tell their homosexual or trangender friends the truth and still love them...actually this is what Jesus commands. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. Ephesians 4:15

What our media and culture has told us for many years now is that if we teach and preach the truth in the Bible that we are haters, homophobes, and bigots and racists. Can you preach the truth in the Bible and be these things? I guess you can, although you are missing the second greatest command which is to love your neighbor. People will point to Jesus and say how much he loved sinners. He certainly did. But he also told them the truth. When Jesus encountered the woman at the well he befriended her in a way that no Jewish man would dare. He also exposed the sin she was living in with her boyfriend, and the fact that she'd been married five times. When Jesus stepped in when the woman who was caught in adultery was about to stoned he showed her great mercy. He literally saved her life. But Jesus didn't stop there. He told her five simple words, "Go and sin no more."

One of the defining phrases of love found in 1 Corinthians 13 is, "love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." If truly love someone you will tell the truth. Proverbs 27:6a says, "Wounds from a friend can be trusted..." In other words, a true friend that truly loves you will tell you the truth even when they know it's going to hurt your feelings. 

Don't buy into the nonsense that truth-telling is hating. Just remember that when you tell the truth have it wrapped tightly in love and compassion. One of the worst things that Jesus ever did in the eyes of the religious leaders of his day was eat with sinners and become their friend. Jesus didn't back down from their criticism he just simply explained himself. “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” One fifteen year old young lady asked me if she could be friends with a homosexual classmate. I told her, with a little explanation, that if Jesus ate with sinners and befriended them that I think you can, too. 

Jesus loved people and he told people the you go do the same. After all, we are all sinners saved by grace. 

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